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Re: Setting Boundaries and Making Space

Jen @ NextRichGirl.com — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 11:33:26 -0000

Love your ideas for creating a positive work space. I find it so difficult to work if the atmosphere is depressing or uncomfortable or there isn't enough light. I don't think enough people realize how important your surroundings are to your productivity. For me, I like having plants around, they create a sense of calm in me.

Re: Setting Boundaries and Making Space

Carla — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 12:53:59 -0000

For me, I need natural light and a fair amount of space. I'm the type who have to keep writing things down or I would forget. I am very visual so I need to SEE whats what and not have it tucked away somewhere just to save space.

I think the key for me is natural light and space.

Re: Setting Boundaries and Making Space

Nathalie Lussier — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 10:21:05 -0000

I think I was in the same situation you described, I even use the timers to keep my focused and on schedule. :) I think it's just about making it clear, and then the boundaries are actually supportive for both your family and for you.

Thanks for sharing!

Re: Setting Boundaries and Making Space

Nathalie Lussier — Sat, 18 Apr 2009 10:00:54 -0000

I hear you Daphne! We often have visitors or customers who have kids, and they like to come see what I'm doing on my computer.

And you're right, it's also a signal to ourselves. :)

Re: Setting Boundaries and Making Space

Ava Pierce — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 22:37:47 -0000

This is a great post! I recall learning this lesson the hard way. I initially started my business from my home and none of my family members respected my time or space. Although I'm a pretty disciplined person, their lack of respect made things really tough. So, I forced them to respect my time and space via closed (and locked) doors and unanswered personal calls during business hours. I also set timers so that I would stay focused on the task at hand until my scheduled break time. Boundaries are so very cool! (Needless to say, my family finally GOT IT.)

Re: Setting Boundaries and Making Space

Daphne @ Joyful Days — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 19:55:52 -0000

Nathalie,

"A door you can close" is probably the best advice I've heard for setting up boundaries. I sometimes work at home and with an open door my little nephews keep running in to ask to play. Once they're in the room, I can't bear to ask them to leave, so sometimes it's best to just make it clear that I'm working. A door is the easiest and most effective signal, to everyone else and most important to myself!

Re: Setting Boundaries and Making Space

Nathalie Lussier — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 14:35:21 -0000

Thanks so much for the book recommendation. I'm always looking for new books to read and this does match the theme of this post perfectly! :)

Re: Setting Boundaries and Making Space

Positively Present — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 13:20:12 -0000

Not too long ago I read a great book called "Boundaries" by Anne Katherine. It really relates to your post and you might find it interesting!